From Redditor u/notatypicaltaurus:

I (21F) stay in a two-bedroom, two-bathroom residence. My boyfriend (22M) shares my bed room and loo with me. My roommate (22F), let’s name her Mary, has her toilet and bed room. We share a kitchen/frequent room. 

For context, Mary and I break up the hire 50/50. Our names are each on the lease, as it’s college housing. We’re each college college students. She is a senior and is graduating in 3 weeks. I’m a junior, so I graduate subsequent 12 months. My boyfriend is a senior and can also be graduating in three weeks on the similar college.

Yesterday, Mary texted me that her dad is flying out for commencement, and he or she is in search of inns, however they’re too costly, so he wants to remain in my bed room. I used to be very confused and brought aback by this request as a result of it appeared fully unusual and inappropriate. I informed her I (and my boyfriend) could be right here and could be utilizing the room (as a result of we stay right here). She stated that we have to depart in order that she will be able to have the room for her dad. I requested if she might use my air mattress in both her room or in our frequent room that he might sleep on, and he or she stated no. My boyfriend then informed her that his buddy had an additional twin mattress in his room that he might use, and he or she stated no as a result of she “must babysit him.”

She informed me she had no alternative however to ask me and my boyfriend to go away our residence so her dad might have my room. Once I stated my boyfriend and I’d be staying in MY room, she stated I used to be being unreasonable as a result of it’s her solely commencement (this isn’t true, as she’s going to medical faculty subsequent 12 months). It is usually my boyfriend’s commencement so he wants to remain as nicely.

She stated she simply began in search of inns 3 weeks earlier than commencement as a result of she had been too busy to do it earlier. Not solely do I want my room, which I pay for, however I’m not comfy with a person I’ve by no means met sleeping in my mattress and staying in my room with my private belongings with out me being there.

AITA if I don’t let her use my room for her dad?

EDIT: My boyfriend, my roommate, and I all pay the college the identical quantity for our housing.

EDIT 2: Apparently, he can’t sleep in her room as a result of she and her mother are sleeping in there, and her mother and father are divorced and might’t stand to be with one another. She stated he can’t sleep on an air mattress as a result of “the place would she put the baggage”? Until they’re bringing 5 suitcases every, there needs to be loads of room.

EDIT 3: She informed me I ought to transfer out, lol

EDIT 4: I’ve posted this in response to a couple feedback, however figured I’d put it right here too: Commencement hasn’t occurred but. She’s now not speaking to me. I attempted to diffuse the stress, apologizing to her, and he or she left me on learn. She retains slamming the door in my face after I get house, and each time she sees me, she slams her door and screams expletives at me, calling me phrases I actually can’t say on right here. So no, no conclusion.